It’s a great challenge to forgive people who have hurt us. In the first instance, we feel that they don’t deserve to be forgiven. Yet, unless we forgive, we can’t forget. And, unless we forget, we can’t free ourselves from their influence. In a sense they still have us trapped from a distance.
Perhaps we could start with the question “Do I deserve to be free from that person or situation?” The answer of course is, “Yes, because I was innocent”. Forgiveness is really an attitude that frees the self and enables us to forget. It doesn’t need to be spoken or written unless you find this helps. Although it may not affect or change those that hurt you, it finishes their ongoing power over your well-being. In the strangest of ways, if you learn this lesson, then the person who hurt you has made you stronger.
Today, let us aim to free ourselves from the influence of those who have hurt us, by mentally forgiving them and reclaiming our power over our well-being... Because, Forgiveness is like the fragrance a flower gives after it's been stepped on.... So lets Forgive & forget and move ahead!
Tranquility......
Jyoti
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yea....vil strt dng dat nw...!!!vil forgive awl 4 d shit dey dne..back biting....using me...evrythng...!!
ReplyDeleteif its worth forgiving plz do.... coz these ppl r not so imp in ur life that u think of them n waste ur precious moments..... n if its not worth forgiving then go ahead n do what you feel is correct... it all depends on how you take it...
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